Comments on: More About Forgiveness . . . And Life’s Little Ironies http://www.lemonadedivorce.com/more-about-forgiveness-and-lifes-little-ironies/ Information, insight, and inspiration for people going through divorce from the Divorce Doc, Alison Patton Sun, 23 Nov 2025 06:03:00 +0000 hourly 1 By: Tara http://www.lemonadedivorce.com/more-about-forgiveness-and-lifes-little-ironies/#comment-93 Fri, 14 Sep 2012 00:04:00 +0000 http://www.lemonadedivorce.com/?p=739#comment-93 Hi Alison, I read your post about the interview with Dr. Fred Luskin on Huffington Post, it was inspirational. Do you have some advices or even write a post on self-forgiveness? Sometimes, after we feel we forgive others, we can not help blaming ourselves, maybe self-forgiveness and forgiving others are actually  one process, which means the inabilities of forgiving yourself subtly indicates the fact that you have not fully forgiven that person. I do not know……. The person who we think hurt ourselves may deserve our hatred to some extent and more importantly, the forgiveness; at the same time, he/ she feel hurt too when he/ she knows the pain we suffered. 

Alison, I do think you are the Marianne Williamson in the area of broken-relationships, it is not easy to run into someone who addresses broken-relationship& divorce chaos from the spirituality and deeply humanity level where is actually where& when the healing starts and proceeds. 

I do wish there will be more and more people whose heart is/was broken could see your blog and get healing and inspirations here. 

All the best. 

]]> By: Johh Galt http://www.lemonadedivorce.com/more-about-forgiveness-and-lifes-little-ironies/#comment-78 Wed, 28 Sep 2011 04:47:00 +0000 http://www.lemonadedivorce.com/?p=739#comment-78 I had a similar experience 29 years ago.   You got through this, like I did.  We learned to love ourselves first.  You can read my story if you’d like.  Today, I work with people who are hurting.  My phone number is on my site.  If you’d like to check it out, http://www.howtogetoverabreakupnow.com
I’m not here promoting my site, I just thought we had commom experiences.  Good Luck to you in the future. 

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